* Way to be a friend, Elena. i think you are telling the absolute truth and when i told my friends about how i feel like you have, they totally agreed. Kol tried to kill me.' 'Where is he now? I get it. I honestly do not think there has been one to admire since Buffy Summers of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. I started to dislike Elena when she became a vampire. The fourth worst is Sybil. There is nothing that defines her anymore other than her love for Damon. Many good vampires like Stefan lexi Bonnies mom even Damon sometimes. Ill watch the first several seasons and pretend it ended when Elena died., This show has no moral standings and to many selfish self centred characters if the show had been done right and not lagged out it would have ended in the second season and not get so much hate like Elena what kind of main character is that? I have a confession to make: I used to like Elena Gilbert. Yeah, except when hes fatally stabbing her and leaving her to die, or mind-controlling Tyler to infect her with a werewolf bite, or using her as leverage against the Elena trio. Chapter 9: Little Talks But they had a valid reason why: Klaus baby was inside of her. Not long, considering the kind of mentality supremacists like Markos have. . Shame I have to put up with another selfish brat Klaus to get to see much of him on The Originals! The idea that Elena has dated/slept with 2 brothers is GROSS on all levels. I want all those bloody vampires dead. Before anyone says its not rape, she went after him the first time, YES, THE FIRST TIME! Yes, Stefan has done some selfish things and his actions are unjustifiable but he still made amends for what he has done. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. It angered me when she was able to kick Carolines butt due to being trained by Alaric. Also, its a mentality like that that makes fans dislike Elena in the first place, the narrative treating her like shes special and her life has more value than anyone elses. I hope she doesnt wake up! Am I the only one who laughed at him? Whatever) fault that all those people died. Chapter 1. Just watched this for Elijah! Nina Dobrev is a fantastic actress, I was blown away by her personality shifts, voice intonations, mannerisms, I mean wow, Ive loved that part of the show! He was wronged by Hayley. I admit, I like Damon. Stefan controlling personality with a martyr complex Stefan ALWAYS hurts Damon when Elena makes a connection with him.. for ex. Someone does need to put her in her place! And Kol was a psychopath, but they did not need to kill him. And Kols return would make the show perfect for me. We talk about this topic a lot on another shows message board, and I think it is legit, but I think it also is an error -a big FAT HUGE error- on the part of the writers. Doesnt Stefan deserve better than a two-timer who has been sleeping with his brother? Bonnie could be kind of a brat and then she would turn around and save her friends, time and again, whenever they needed her to, despite hating what they were doing. I dont miss Elena at all. Using Caroline as a sex-slave AND tormenting her AND blackmailing her with her moms, Bonnies, and Elenas deaths? I think shes insanely talented and I absolutely love her Katherine Pierce but Katherine is SUPPOSED to be selfish, since shes the anti-heroine. Damon is just the schoolyard bully who was never put in his place with too much power in his hands. Then when Stephan became the ripper Damon went behind and cleanedbup after him. I dont know what they see in her. Like you, Ive abandoned TVD for TO. the dagger, and that what Klaus said when he saw Kols burning body. He was like he was going to make him suffer on his terms(the dagger) but yep, once again Elenas feelings comes before everyone elses and she killed an entire bloodline because they were just a means to an end with her. I dont think shes the worst character on the show, but I also think its silly to glorify her. . Don't Be Shy: A Kelena Fanfiction - kate - Wattpad It was so unbelievable. Thats pretty much when emotionally, I divorced the series. AHH! Why dont you check all facts before harping about how selfish Elena is? If they bring back Kol for The Originals, I will be a happy girl. He had an abusive father, who pushed him around. Same for Bonnie. Elijah and Elena - fangirl354 - Wattpad In the beginning she was compassionate caring thought of others but not long after Klaus breaks his curse she becomes someone completely different. I hope Matt falls deeply in love with Rebecca too, becomes a vampire to be with her always, cause hes been stuck on Elena since the beginning too. Damon intentional psychopath who kills people whenever hes pissed off Caroline and Damon had sex and while they were in the middle of it, he started to feed on her and she got scared. *Spelling it all out really reveals how pathetic and soapy this show is. Elena would kill someone to protect Stefan Caroline wouldnt. I must say in general Im a much bigger fan of Legacies and the characters than VD. A girl who killed more people than the days she lived. Considering that if Alexander had been equipped with a White Oak stake instead of the daggers, the entire Original family would have died instead of been in a comma (minus Klaus). Elenas character become worse when she got together with Damon because she doesnt care about anyone anymore.. just her love for damon. His bite left her arm and she was perfectly healed. I hope they both get sick of her and she ends up with neither. Season 4 and 5 were not good.. (when DE got together..hmmm..) I wish they would show more Defan moments.. that is the TRUE LOVE of this show. I really did. The scene when she dropped Carolyn during the pep rally, Yikes! So please if you are going to judge here use the same standards for everybody, will you! Of course Stefan was no angel but Caroline was abused and manipulated by Damon. You walk out on Stefan because he was drinking blood from the blood bankhes a vampire and thats what they do..if you love him truly love him, you love the good the bad the ugly. A few more and they compete with Jeremys deaths. I do agree with a lot of it. Also the only reason Stefan and Damon went for her was because she looked like Katherine and Ill admit thats pretty messed up but I think theyre both better off without her. . Sure. Elenas a damn selfish slut and deserves it. Plus, at least Katherine had the decency to love Stefan AND Damon (or at least show it that way, I believe she loved Stefan tho) and not break one of their Hearts. WTF is wrong with Damon? She killed her brother (although Rebekah was sort of happy about that, but still. Heh. Im sorry, but, humanity or not, I would cut someone out of my life (if I didnt kill them myself) if they tried something against my mom. Thats why I always stick to the first seasons. But its fairly obvious theyre ripping off plot points from Buffy now. Where the hell is Buffy when you need her? But doing it for that long? Shes a selfish self centered everything is all about me and what I want and my feelings annoying twit! P.S Stelena should get back together because there love was epic and you can tell, every time something happens to Elena you can tell Stefan still loves her and he always will and vice versa. DangerousElena is an avid fanfiction reader and an active particpant in the world of fandom. Its like she thinks if she says someone cant do something, they wont because she says they cant, and uses her friendship with that person to control them. This is a problem because: A) its bad writing and shows that the author/writers are insecure about their character and their actions that they need to have someone cool or an authority comment on how great the heroine is without showing her DOING the talked up characteristic; and B) more often than not, most talked up characters (in the positive, want to make them into role models way) dont live up to the hype of how nice or compassionate they are and SHOW that they might just be the opposite. Oh and how she thinks she can control Damon and Stefan. Violent when people disagree with him. You are right started hating her at the end of Season 1. I love Elijah(who does not). I say well, if you can watch TVD and The Originals and actually say any of those shows vampire characters are good? That Elijah. Anyway, apart from the Elena and Damon shenanigans since I dont feel like ranting about their Harley/Joker relationship. It annoys me how it is ALWAYS about her. Im so glad I am not alone! From there, it descended into utter tripe, with so many people running around wearing the same face that it immediately got boring. If they want Damon and Elena to be together then just do it already! If his son is eager to avoid his wrath at all costs, then Mikael would have to settle to the next best thing he's got. bonnie and caroline both really care for her! i agree. KillTheBitch | FanFiction My gift to Katherine Pierce, AKA the greatest villain of the Vampire Diaries. Meanwhile, Jeremys death due to the groups arrogance that they could get away with the cure unscathed, that came off as karmic considering that he was one of the people involved in jumpstarting the apocalypse. Buffy was thankfully flawed. (Good to know its an okay font size for other people!). The best person is still Bonnie,she isnt perfect but she truly puts her all into saving her friends,sometimes her life. I realize that Kol was a threat and largely uncontrollable, but if Bonnie could trap Klaus inside that house after they murdered Kol, she could have trapped Kol inside the house too. The Vampire Diaries: 5 Worst Things Elena Did To Stefan (& 5 He Did To Her) I was like, what the hell? Move on. I have more problems with the villains in the story. Mikael just needs a little bit of time and patience. Elena reminding him all about their past relationship, and not telling him that shes with Damon until the last moment, bugged me. Caroline, Bonnie, Tyler there so many people whove been through way worse than her and she cant even suck it up and apologise to Caroline like a real friend and she lets Bonnies grams die helping her and then wonder why Bonnies mad. Buffy saved the world and died to save it WITHOUT whining about it. I dont know about you, but my mom (and my dad) is the one thing you dont screw around with. Hypocrite! Season 3 | Ordinary People: After having his humanity turned off by Klaus, Stefan saves Damon (how many times has he done that) when Mikael is about to rip out Damons heart. Shes repulsive. When Carolines dad died, And Alarick was killed by someone in Elenas house ( same night ) Elena get all the attention. Season five is midway through and UGH. They expect Bonnie to be their weapon for everything that occurs in Mystic Falls. But ALL the central characters are so hypocritical and ridiculous. People have been talking about the world (I think they actually mean The United States) being all upside down right. Would you still feel the same if, in an alternate universe where Lexi couldnt go to MF in season 1, during a Bon Jovi hope you feel better about Elena pulling a Katherine party with Stefan, Lexi dropped mid-dance-step, graying with the veins popping out and her eyes gazing lifelessly at the ceiling because shes of Kols line? I think I hated her the most in season 4. But hey, at least The Originals is good so far. Just wanted to thank you for posting that it warms my heart ;D Even though I know that he was a lunatic blablabla I LOVED Kol from day 1. Shes not innocent. Its really bad that when I see her, I feel chemicals in my veins. I totally hate Elena. egh!! But these two guys dumped her because she was a manipulative bitch and selfish who killed so many people to survive, while they forgot about themselves who killed many people to survive too. If you want to see Elena as a decent human being, but with more of a backbone, you should read the books. But then I rethink about her reason to do it was because she never got the man he loved. Adversity is the window which reveals our true selves. Am I missing somethingshe is just a girl. But they are ruining her character by turning her into a Stefan worshipper and a hypocrite. My point is: I was really disappointed with her character development and Im stuck at the end of season 4 at the moment and just hope it will get better, but according to some comments here it wont. So tell me where is the good thing she ever done? Yeah, when you compare Elena to Buffy, Elena really looks like a selfish brat. Then she wakes up in a panic because she remembers his face and what he did. Im so sick of Elena. It has seemed a lot to me lately with so many nude pix of ladies online, they might say and think they are owning their sexuality, but it just makes me sad and think No! Sometimes it works, but often Elena really gets on my nerves. The Nazis used to use it: oh, theyre just Jews. Oh, and I like your new layout. Like when Jeremys mad at her for erasing his memories and the Salvatores go all good cop bad cop on him. You can find out more about her passion projects at www.charitysplace.com. Im pretty sure if you guys lost your mom and dad, then found out they werent your mom and dad, then you met your real parents, lost them, lost your aunt, then lost someone thats really close to you (alaryic) then your brother? Elijah has been my favorite character since he arrived. Ive never seen Elena as aperfect character because perfect is unattainable. Damon was waiting at the front door, while the gang was toasting for Katherine's soon-to-be death. T-T Then now she says shes in love with Damon, ooooh this is going way too far. Stefan Doesn't Realize Katherine Is In Elena's Body Soon Enough. Except for Vicki. What matters in a friendship is if the person is the one who would protect you from harm and be there with a shovel and an alibi ready if you do something stupid. Hes had just as much heartache as any other character (more, actually, as you point out) but is never given any breaks, and is expendable as far as Elena is concerned, because she doesnt care about him. She was going to kill this bitch right . but then (Spoiler alert) Kol returned in episode 18 and they got me again I am addicted to tvd. But the main character (Elena) fails what I call the Acathla Test. Get a grip. her brother), and most of Elenas circle of comfort dislikes her. She was scared. I can deal with immoral behavior in Damon, because hes been that way from the start; but the severe change in Elena has not been for the better. The thing that I dont get is why human life does not matter to Elena. After she made Ric compel her to forget about Damon there was absolutely no grief left. I just couldnnt stand Elena self-pitty stream after the death of the guy she has known for two years and had some Sex with. The whole Damon and Elena relationship is getting old since all they do is have sex, break up, get back together, and more sex BORING. perhaps Damon needs to flirt and obsess over other women and see how she likes it. Or, have you not read the books? Vampire Diaries - Rated: T - English - Romance/Supernatural - Chapters: 22 - Words: 24,024 . Even Damon had selfless moments, where he did something so Stefan WOULDNT do it and earn Elenas wrath. And I just realized that she could arguably have been self-medicating too since she had suffered the loss of her parents and then more really bad stuff. His family? He ran over to push Klaus away from us but he just went flying into the wall. I dont believe she knew how much of Carolines humanity would still be in tact. Hes nuanced. Granted, they are more on the terms of frenemies, but this shows how the writers strive so hard to make Elena the center of attention. True theyre all murderers, and all of them have justified it by protecting their small circle of friends. 5) See number 2. That simple solution has made my world brighter. When a friend takes your friendship for granted many times and even hurts you constantly, theres two healthy options you can take: 1) cut them out of your life or 2) remain their friend but prioritize your own wants and needs rather than your friends. They tried sucking me back into the series with the Kol stunt but he was there for what, five minutes? But Im not in much a position to judge. I think he best thing that they can do is have Elena stick with her choice. Season 2 | The Sun Also Rises: Stefan OFFERS himself to be sacrificed to save Jennas life. To be honest I used to like katherine from the beginning of the show until season 4. Essentially, this show has gone down the toilet since season 2. I DONT LIKE HER ANYMORE! It just took the whole Original thing out of context (maybe to me) and I just got bored with the whole plot. Three maybe. Stefan and by proxy because he loves a good sibling rivalry, Damon got dragged into her drama and in the end both used like toilet paper. On Damon and rape. anywho. the just wanted to stop elena and the others to doing something that could ruin everything for them. Elena has not become a better person with Damon even though Damon claims she makes him a better person. Sorry for bad English. Keep hoping. Im a delena shipper but after she slept with Damon and Rebecca compelled her to tell the truth in the libraryshe had no right to be mad at Stefan for wanting to forget! She reminds me of Lana from Smallville A LOT. I totally agree I have a hatred of Elena Gilbert because of she acts I honestly prefer Caroline because Of her character development becoming a vampire was the best thing for her Plus support a best friend I honestly do not like Elena because she is the primary reason why Jenna Summers died I like Jenna but if Elena I just told Jenna about the vampires she wouldve learned how to defend herself and she wouldnt mind it most likely survived Elena acts like she is it the adult and Jenna is her kid which is completely messed up Elena acts like oh Jeremy is still a kid I can understand being protective of her younger sibling consider inviting her Im also an older sibling but sometimes you have to realize they are younger sibling and do stuff for himself and thanks for himself. Everybodys like We need to save Elena and they put her first before anyone else. Its the writers of the show! i go with stelena coz its what iz best. Please consider turning it on! Yes, Elena, Elijah. Her best friend for years but Damon ist the the golden statue. you dont know how much I agree with you I think Elena is selfish and a hypocrite who makes everything about her. I was so done. Loved season 1 and 2. Sure, some like Vicky would have lived her life as usual, but do you really think some of them wouldnt have decided Hey, we dont need to feed anymore, WHY do we need humans now? Or maybe it would have caused a never-ending war between vampires, werewolves, and witches WHO CAN NEVER DIE. Klaus (novel) | The Vampire Diaries Wiki | Fandom If this show has shown us anything, its that. Was this the best way to steer her friend away from a guy with a rape precedent? When looked at in perspective theres a clear development, you can see how he changed and why. And no one can stop her. Please know this at least for yourself in your life! If I dont like Elena as an individual, I dont like ANY Elena pairing. Yeah I have read ALL of them. She is insanely selfish. Eyikes! She said game on." Caroline snarled at Damon and turned to walk away when he grabbed her arm. Its just impossible. Another thing that upsets me is that they continue to undermine the relationship that Stefan and Elena had. Elena looks like Katherine.